Lean On Me
by Graham MolThis morning the song Lean On Me by Bill Withers was going through my head. We used to sing the song in our primary school hymn singing. Although not a hymn itself, it does speak of the Christian quality of loving and supporting one another; about being there for each other. Something that we are called to do as the body of Christ, as brothers and sisters in Christ.Here are the lyrics to the song: Lean On MeSometimes in our livesWe all have pain, we all have sorrow.But if we are wise,We know that there's always tomorrow.Lean on me when you're not strongAnd I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry onFor it won't be long'Til I'm gonna need somebody to lean on.Please swallow your prideIf I have things you need to borrowFor no one can fill those of your needsThat you won't let show.You just call on me, brother, when you need a handWe all need somebody to lean on.I just might have a problem that you'll understand,We all need somebody to lean on.Lean on me when you're not strongAnd I'll be your friend I'll help you carry onFor it won't be long'Til I'm gonna need somebody to lean onYou just call on me, brother, when you need a handWe all need somebody to lean on.I just might have a problem that you'll understand,We all need somebody to lean on.If there is a loadYou have to bearThat you can't carryI'm right up the roadI'll share your loadIf you just call me.There is such wisdom in these lyrics. It reminds me of the wisdom we find in the book of Eccelesiastes:Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts. 10 For if either falls, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to lift him up. 11 Also, if two lie down together, they can keep warm; but how can one person alone keep warm? 12 And if someone overpowers one person, two can resist him. A cord of three strands is not easily broken. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)Both the song lyrics, and the verses from the Bible highlight the importance of being able to "lean on" each other. When you are weak, you can lean on that friend, and receive their support, they can lift you up when you fall. Likewise, when the situation is reversed and that friend is the one who is strong, you can be that person for them to lean on. This is why "two are better than one".Life can get tough and we're not always able to handle or carry the load. As the song states: "We all need somebody to lean on". It is also important that we ask for help. You have to "swallow your pride... for no one can fill those of your needs that you won't let show." So many go it alone because they don't want to admit that they need help. We justify this by saying that we don't want to burden others, but what…