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by Calven CelliersI once read a chilling illustration about a man in France who was bitten by a rabid dog. This was years before a treatment had been discovered for rabies. When it was determined the dog was indeed rabid, a kind doctor told the man he had only a short time to live. Upon hearing this distressing news, the unfortunate man asked the doctor for some paper and a pencil and then commenced writing furiously. After a few minutes, the doctor interrupted. “If you are writing out your will, you have time. Think carefully about your estate; you still have a few days.” The patient replied sharply, “I’m not making out my will. I am making a list of all the people I’m going to bite before I die!”Bitterness. Some people are controlled by it. They have been treated badly and in return they wish bad things would happen to their offenders. Some brood for years, tormented by memories of the wounds they received. I once chatted to a man who had been offended by something someone said to him and openly bragged how he waited 30 years to get even. That’s a true story! Sometimes people get so angry that they make sure something bad does happen, and take revenge. But the Bible says that this is the very worst possible “solution” to resolve the hurt in our lives. Forgiveness is something all of us want to receive but most of us hesitate to give. Jesus makes it clear, however, that we can't have it without giving it.“14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matthew 6: 14 & 15NIV)These words allow no wiggle room for doubt or discussion. Forgiveness flows two ways. We cannot separate receiving forgiveness from extending forgiveness.One day the apostle Peter came up to Jesus and asked him a question:“21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”” (Matthew 18:21NIV)We’ve all asked this question at one time or another. “How many times do I have to forgive this person? I’m getting tired of it.” To be honest, forgiving someone seven times is commendable. Most of us get frustrated if we have to forgive someone twice. By human standards, what Peter said was admirable and perhaps even extravagant. It seems to me that Peter wanted Jesus to help him set some forgiveness limits. Peter wanted to know when it’s ok to say, “That’s it. You’ve messed up one too many times!” When you think about it, we all have some barriers that keep us from giving the gift of forgiveness to others. We have a threshold that we don’t want to cross, a limit we won’t go beyond. I can think of at least three barriers of an unforgiving heart: Revenge “I’m going to get…
